We all talk about what is normal or what is not normal but in reality "Normal" is only a relative term. What some call normal is abnormal for others. What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly. Everything in life is perspective based and that is also relative to our understanding and background and also to some degree our education too. Our views on life make us at times wonder perhaps "Am I normal" in comparison to others or vice versa. The rule of thumb is that as long as you do not harm others directly or indirectly then your freedom allows you to be or to enjoy what it is that you feel is pertinent to yourself. Never be put off by the opinions of others for they are just that - opinions. Never be put off either by religious diatribe by judgmental leaders they are no better than you and possibly worse in today's society. Be yourself at all times you don't need permission or acceptance as it is no one else's authority to give it to you. or take it away.