Suppose life had no barriers what would you do? Well life hasn't any barriers unless you are in prison, so why aren't you doing it? Have you given yourself duties and responsibilities to others so you can't or won't go any further in life and if so do you now hide behind them as an excuse as to why you can't do what you would like in this life? Life can be a bit of a 'bitch' it can also be fabulous too. You do have choices - granted they are not easy, but sometimes there are alternatives that almost allow you to do what you want to do without affecting others. Solutions if you are really interested are there, only those with desire will find them, the rest will procrastinate.